Showing posts with label attraction. Show all posts
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Friday, December 25, 2009

Signs of Attraction - Body Language - Signs of Love and Attraction

As I was searching for love, I had great fun learning some basics of body language in relation to physical attraction. It was fun to be near someone I found attractive and see if he reciprocated what I felt. It was a helpful tool during the very first meetings and during the initial dates!

Attraction signs of the body:

- Especially if sitting, his/her foot is likely to be pointing towards you
- Or their legs will be crossed TOWARDS you
- They will turn towards you or at least have the trunk of their body face towards you (so they may turn towards you in a way that their trunk is at least facing you)
- They will come very close to you if they can (this will of course also depend on their culture, the circumstance etc)
- If you two are on 'speaking terms', during your exchanges he/she will touch you, even if in a seemingly casual way (but of course there are people who touch you no matter what, so you need to verify by checking other attractions signs)
- His/her head may be tilted
- They will touch their face during conversation
- Their lips may be slightly parted
- They will exhibit grooming behaviours such as adjusting their clothes, checking their face (or parts of), adjust their hair, etc)
- They may touch their face, often near the eyes whilst talking to you or looking at you.

Moreover: a man will sit in front of you and acquire a straighter, more 'squared' posture in order to 'show off' his shoulders and chest as well as displaying (subconsciously) his sexual areas; he may also sit or stand with his legs apart and his head held high and, at times, roll up their sleeves (all subconscious showing-off gestures)

a woman will stroke her hair or/and touch/stroke her neck in your presence, or whilst looking at your or whilst you two are talking; she may also thrust our her breasts in your presence.

Attraction signs of the eyes:

- They will look at your eyes, then will look at another part of your face, sometimes from eye to eye to mouth, other times along your hair; it's a form of 'caressing your face' with their eyes
- They may look at you and then look away, often looking back at your raising their eyes/eyebrows
- They may just raise their eyebrows
- Their pupils will be more dilated than they would normally in that particular environment/light, so if you can check others' pupils in the same room/area for comparison.
- Their eyes may be watery

Mirroring your movements or gestures is also a sign of attraction. Similarly, if you wish to make someone feel at ease, you could mirror his/her movements. In order to determine physical attractions, you don't have to notice all of the above signs, because it obviously also depends on the circumstances (where you are at that time, for example). But if you notice many of the above signs, he/she is attracted to you! Congratulations!

However, remember that some 'players' may be using the body language to manipulate you. This is why, if you are searching for love and nothing less, you must learn to determine, as you two date, if he/she genuinely cares for you and your well being. Love and physical attractions are not the same thing! It may be helpful to read the rel=nofollow [http://mysearchingforlove.com]n.1 rule to love (go to the left side menu and click on the title 'N.1 Love Search Rule') in order to 'diagnose' the situation between you and him/her, as you are dating or having a relationship.

Even after you have become body language experts in the area of physical attraction, you may wish to remember that if you are seriously searching for lasting, fulfilling love you will not rely solely on physical attraction nor mere compatibilities. Learning what type of relationship is likely to be most fulfilling will be of great help in determining if he or she is a good 'match' and if you are wising up in your love search.

Jules Monty from http://www.mysearchingforlove.com

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Body Language Signs of Attraction - 3 Reliable Signs That Someone is Attracted to You

The body betrays what is inside our hearts and our minds. No wonder a lot of people have dedicated their whole lives to studying body language. Over the years, these experts have come up with many ways that a person can interpret non-verbal expressions. One of the more popular examples is body language signs of attraction.

Attraction has always been a hot topic among males and females. You're probably wondering what it is that might give you away or what it is that reveals a person's feelings for you. If you're ready to find out, read on for body language signs of attraction.

1) Crossed Legs Pointing Towards You

Most people don't notice it, but their legs naturally gravitate towards the people they like or are interested in. Lucky for you, this is something easily observed.

The next time you find yourself conversing with the person in question, check out which direction their crossed leg is pointed at. If it's pointed towards you, allow yourself a small smile of victory. But if it's not in your favor, don't think of the worst. Check out the other body language signs of attraction below for other hints.

2) Small Grooming Gestures

One way to tell when someone is interested is in how often they groom themselves when you two are together. The gesture could be as simple as adjusting the tie or tucking a strand of hair behind the ear. These may be small things but they mean a lot.

You have to be extra observant though or you won't catch the person in question doing any of these at all. After all, how long does it take for a person to touch their hair? If you blink, you might miss it.

3) Gazing Back and Forth

The beauty about body language signs of attraction is that it is mainly an unconscious reaction. People don't realize that they're doing it so you can observe them more freely.

One sign you can look at is when a person gazes at you every once in a while. This is definitely a sign of interest from the other person. You can actually catch them in the act if you so wish!

Body language signs of attraction are easy enough to interpret. You don't need to overanalyze every detail of a person's movements. All you have to do is observe key gestures that will reveal more or less a person's feelings towards you.

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